More than an app
Find your
village.
The private community for women choosing motherhood on their own terms — through every stage of the journey.
Private. Verified. Women only.
Completely free to join.
For every question. Every milestone. Every chapter.
Built by Melanie
Made by one of us.
ama. is built by Melanie — a Single Mother by Choice herself. Every screen, every prompt, every corner of this app is designed by someone who's lived the questions you're asking.
No committee. No outsiders. Just a mom building the community she wished existed.
What is ama.?
A private space for women choosing motherhood on their own terms.
Considering. Trying. Pregnant. Parenting. Whatever chapter you're in — you're with women who've been there.
- Ask questions.
- Share fears.
- Find friendship.
- Feel understood.
In their own words
Quiet moments, shared anonymously.
Anonymous · Considering
“I finally said it out loud — and no one flinched.”
Anonymous · TTC
“Cycle 4. Hoping. Trying not to hope. You get it.”
Anonymous · Pregnant
“20 weeks today. First time I've told anyone besides my mom.”
Anonymous · Parenting
“She said 'mama' this morning and I cried into my coffee.”
Anonymous · Considering
“It's terrifying. And it's also the most me thing I've ever done.”
Anonymous · TTC
“Nobody warned me how lonely the two-week wait is.”
Anonymous · Pregnant
“Third trimester. Somehow lonely and full at the same time.”
Anonymous · Parenting
“Nap trapped. Grateful. Exhausted. All of it.”
Anonymous · Considering
“I stopped waiting for the right partner and started listening to me.”
Anonymous · TTC
“Two lines. I sat on the bathroom floor for an hour.”
Anonymous · Considering
“I finally said it out loud — and no one flinched.”
Anonymous · TTC
“Cycle 4. Hoping. Trying not to hope. You get it.”
Anonymous · Pregnant
“20 weeks today. First time I've told anyone besides my mom.”
Anonymous · Parenting
“She said 'mama' this morning and I cried into my coffee.”
Anonymous · Considering
“It's terrifying. And it's also the most me thing I've ever done.”
Anonymous · TTC
“Nobody warned me how lonely the two-week wait is.”
Anonymous · Pregnant
“Third trimester. Somehow lonely and full at the same time.”
Anonymous · Parenting
“Nap trapped. Grateful. Exhausted. All of it.”
Anonymous · Considering
“I stopped waiting for the right partner and started listening to me.”
Anonymous · TTC
“Two lines. I sat on the bathroom floor for an hour.”
For the women already on this path — and the women beginning to believe it might be theirs.
Inside ama.
Your village.
In your pocket.
A whole app built around one thing — women who get it. Here are three you'll live in.
Sarah, 35 · TTC · 2 mi
cycle 4 and losing my mind
Priya · Pregnant · 22w
first solo scan tomorrow 🫶
Maya · Considering
anyone else 38 and terrified?
Find your people.
By where they are in the journey — considering, TTC, pregnant, parenting. And by how close they live.
Sarah, 35 · TTC · 2 mi
cycle 4 and losing my mind
Priya · Pregnant · 22w
first solo scan tomorrow 🫶
Maya · Considering
anyone else 38 and terrified?
Amara, 36
Pregnant · London
Jess, 41
Parenting · 3 mi
Lena, 33
Considering · Berlin
Search for your people.
Search by name or place, filter by city, country or stage — and see new faces every time you open it.
Amara, 36
Pregnant · London
Jess, 41
Parenting · 3 mi
Lena, 33
Considering · Berlin
I'm terrified I'll never become a mum.
Always open. Always anonymous.
A quieter, anonymous corner for the thoughts you need somewhere to land. Share and reply with a soft name — always open.
I'm terrified I'll never become a mum.
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Join the women already walking it — and the ones just beginning to believe it could be theirs.